We are returning to our usual schedule of the fourth Friday of the month. That has us meeting on the 23rd of May.

Raid your wardrobe and bring anything quality that deserves a new home as the Clothes Swap is returning! This popular new feature we introduced in January 2025 is in hot demand. We have donated all the clothes from this year which have appeared multiple times without finding a new home so expect a fresh round of offerings!

“It’s my first time out in public in women’s clothes and I’m scared”

If this is you, be you a cross-dresser or a closeted trans woman coming out for the first time; you’re in the right place. DT’s Hotel provide the perfect place to debut. It is not on a major road like most queer venues, so it is possible to park discreetly and enter the corner hotel without being seen. Inside it is relaxed and friendly and most importantly, the majority of the crowd are AMAB (assigned male at birth) femmes and non-binary people. They are just like you and have been there before making their own shaky first steps.

It is perfectly ok to come completely dressed as a man if you are still scared. Please note that if you approach the girls in man-mode, make it known to them you are also one of the dolls. The majority of the guests are femmes seeking friendship of other femmes, if a man approaches, they may fear you are a chaser. But once we know you are one of us, we are happy to provide you the advice and motivation to come next time as the real you. At worst it will be like going to the swimming pool without your bathers. But at least you will leave knowing the water is warm for next time!

See you soon! Put it in your diary: May 23rd!